Breakups can be one of the hardest things a person has to go through in life. It can also be one of the most painful things you’ll feel, as well as one of the most depressing things you’ll experience. But you know what? There’s more to it than it seems.
Here’s what you need to know about breakups:
It’s a stepping stone.
Breakups may be hard, but nothing’s harder than continuing on a road to your final destination with an enormous rock blocking your way. Simply put, your breakup is a stepping stone – a new beginning, a new road to take, and a new destination to arrive at. No matter how painful it is or how depressing it will be, do know that there’s a new beginning in every old ending.
You will be okay. You are not alone.
No matter what other people say, you will be okay. Maybe not now, but eventually – you will be okay. Keep in mind that you only broke up with one person. Look around you. Look around those who love you. They are there for you. They are there to support you. Those reasons alone should be enough for you to be okay. Because you are not alone. And because you are there with them.
This is why hope is important. This is why hope is needed. It’s for you to stay hopeful, despite everything that happened. It’s for you to stay focused, despite all those distractions. It’s for you to stay alive, despite all those pain. Hope, no matter where you came from, it keeps us going. It helps us stand back up the ground, even after falling a long way down.
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